The short answer
Estate planning intake runs in three stages. A short web form gets the inquiry, and a call sheet covers both spouses and the conflict check. The long family and asset questionnaire waits until the client hires you. The builder below has the first two, ready to edit, print, save as Word or copy.
Build your estate planning intake form
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1. Choose your questions
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2. Your form
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The estate planning set is a Word file and a PDF. Both put the short web form on the first page and the call sheet after it, with the core questions switched on.
Other practice areas are on the law firm intake form builder.
What should an estate planning intake form ask, and when?
Ask three different things at three different times. A website visitor will give you a name and a reason for writing. A first call can cover who the plan is for and who must be checked for conflicts. Money and family detail belong after the client signs.
- Web formSeven fields: name, phone, email, what they need help with, a few lines in their own words, how they found you, and an optional OK to text them. The visitor fills it in, on your website, and it goes straight into your CRM.
- First callWho the plan is for, both spouses' names, the people they may name, existing documents, what has changed, and anything time-sensitive. Your intake person fills it in on the phone, in the CRM matter and its notes.
- After they hire youFamily details, accounts, property, and the choice of executor, trustee, agent and guardian, collected in person or through a secure portal. The client fills it in, with help, in your document system or secure portal, never open email.
One agency that sells intake services puts the website form at "typically 6–10 fields, not 30."[1] Ours has seven. The call sheet has 26 core questions and 5 optional extras, and you can switch any of them off.
Who goes on the conflict check for an estate plan?
Everyone the plan touches goes on it, starting with both people in a couple. California's conflict rules apply to one lawyer acting for several people in one matter, and the rule's own examples include "joint or reciprocal wills for a husband and wife."[3] That is why the call sheet asks for the spouse's name before anything else about the matter.
| Person | Why they matter | Call sheet question |
|---|---|---|
| The caller | May not be the client. An adult child may call for a parent | Who is the plan for? |
| Spouse or partner | A second client in the same matter | The spouse's full name |
| Executor, trustee, agent, guardian | Named in the documents, so they can have interests of their own | Full names of the people they may name |
| Family who may disagree, business partners, a former spouse | The people most likely to contest a plan | Optional: anyone likely to disagree |
The rule describes the lawyer's position, so your counsel decides how your firm handles couples. The form only makes sure the names are on file before the first meeting.
What should stay off a website intake form?
Leave off Social Security numbers, account numbers and exact asset values. A visitor has not hired you yet, the first conversation does not need them, and a public form is a poor place to hold them.
California's rule on prospective clients points the same way for a different reason. The aim is to avoid learning things that could stop the firm acting for someone else. So a lawyer "must limit the initial interview to only such information as" reasonably appears necessary to decide whether to take the matter.[2] The call sheet asks for a rough range of assets only as an optional extra, and never for account numbers.
Who is calling, and who is the client?
For estate planning it may be an adult child calling for a parent, or one spouse calling for both. So the call sheet asks who the plan is for before it asks what is in the estate. Five questions only fit this practice:
- Who is the plan for: you alone, you and a spouse or partner, or a parent or relative?
- If someone else, who are they and will they be at the first meeting?
- Which will, trust or power of attorney exists now, and what has changed since?
- In which other states, if any, do you own a home or land?
- Is anything time-sensitive, such as planned surgery, a new diagnosis or a closing date?
The last one decides the order of your calendar. A signing next week and a review next quarter are different jobs.
Which family, executor and power of attorney details does the first call need?
Only names, roles and what exists today. The first call needs to know who the children are, who may serve as executor, trustee, guardian or agent, and whether a power of attorney is already signed. It does not need addresses, dates of birth or the reasons for each choice.
- Children and grandchildren: first names and ages, and whether anyone is under 18 or has special needs.
- Executor, trustee, guardian and agent: the names they are thinking of, so the conflict check can run.
- Power of attorney and health care directive: whether one is signed now, the year and the state.
The drafting meeting covers the rest. Writing it down early only gives you more to protect.
What should a client bring before the drafting meeting?
Ask for the papers that decide what the plan has to do. Send this list once they have booked, not with the web form.
Bring to the drafting meeting
- Any current will, trust or power of attorney, signed copies
- The deed or a list of property, and the state each is in
- Who is named on retirement accounts and life insurance
- Business agreements, if they own part of a business
- Names and contact details of the people they may name
- Any court order or divorce paper that affects the plan
Where does each answer go in your CRM?
Each answer from the call sheet has its own place in the CRM:
| Answer | Where it goes in the CRM | Why it matters |
|---|---|---|
| Spouse or partner | A second contact linked to the same matter | Both are checked, and both get the same reminders |
| Existing will, trust or power of attorney | A document list with year and state, not the notes | Tells you whether it is a new plan or an update |
| Executor, trustee, agent, guardian | A related contact for each, with the role | The conflict check can run on all of them |
| Anything time-sensitive | A date field and a flag on the matter | Urgent matters get a call first |
| How they heard about us | A required lead source field | Shows which marketing brings signed clients |
Rishabh spent four years running intake, marketing and systems from inside law firms. Our first step with a new client is a call check: we call the firm, after hours too, and fill in its forms the way a new client would. Test it with a couple first.
We set up Clio Grow, Lawmatics, HubSpot, GoHighLevel and Salesforce, or fix the CRM your firm already owns. Our legal intake software guide compares the main tools, and the law firm CRM guide covers the choice. If you also want more of these inquiries, see marketing for estate planning firms.
Other practice areas have their own sets: immigration and family law.
How fast should you reply to an estate planning inquiry?
Reply in minutes, not days. In a study of 1,333 US law firms, a law firm marketing agency found that "Twenty-five percent of law firms respond to online leads in under 5 minutes."[4] A fast call back helps your firm get the meeting. Our speed to lead guide shows the routine, written for personal injury but the same for any practice.
Who this form is not for
It is a starting point for the first conversation. It is not the full drafting questionnaire, and it will not replace the client data capture in estate planning software if your firm already uses it.
Questions firm owners ask
Can one intake form serve a couple?
Use one matter with two contacts, and ask for both names on the first call so both go through the conflict check. California's conflict rules list joint or reciprocal wills for a husband and wife among their examples, so have your counsel decide how your firm handles couples.
Should I ask for a Social Security number on the web form?
We leave it off. The form is public, and the first conversation does not need it. Collect it later, in person or through a secure portal your firm already uses.
Is this a legal document?
No. It is a list of questions for your intake team, not a contract or a will. Naelar is not a law firm and does not give legal advice. Have your ethics counsel review it before you use it.
What about the long questionnaire about assets and family?
That comes after the client hires you. This page covers the web form and the first call, and lists the documents to ask for before the drafting meeting.
Try this today
Send your own firm a test inquiry as a married couple would. It takes about ten minutes.
- Fill in your website form on a phone, as one spouse writing for both.
- Note how long it takes for a person to call or email back.
- Open your CRM and check that the spouse is a second contact, and that the inquiry shows where it came from.
More free tools for law firms, and the general law firm intake form builder.
Sources
- Law Scale, "Law Firm Intake Forms: Best Practices for Estate Planning Attorneys." Published April 25, 2026. A company that sells intake services. getlawscale.com. Checked October 29, 2026.
- State Bar of California, Rules of Professional Conduct, rule 1.18 comment [3]. Current rules, 2026. calbar.ca.gov. Checked October 29, 2026.
- State Bar of California, Rules of Professional Conduct, rule 1.7 comment [2]. Current rules, 2026. calbar.ca.gov. Checked October 29, 2026.
- Hennessey Digital, a law firm marketing agency, "2025 Lead Form Response Time Study." Published June 24, 2025. hennessey.com. Checked October 29, 2026.
